jwindso wrote:
Re: “ The family is donating to the ward mission fund, and those funds may (or may not) be used for the missionary. ”
I don’t believe this is correct. . . .
This is not viewed as a general fund. After our daughter ended her mission and had a positive balance, those funds were to be either (1) refunded or (2) applied to our son’s missionary fund.
Donations to the ward missionary fund, even those identifying a specific missionary, are never refunded. As the donation slip specifically says, "Though reasonable efforts will be made to use donations as designated, all donations become the Church's property and will be used at the Church's sole discretion to further the Church's overall mission."
As you indicated, they may be transferred to another missionary. This worked well in your case because you also had a son serving.
I agree that it would be convenient for a member to be able to look up a balance of contributions toward a specific missionary. But for now, the clerk is the one who will need to do that for members who need that information. And it is part of his calling to do so.