sstockfo wrote:no, just six organizations. The 3 wards combined the youth programs, drawing leadership from all three wards. So, the laurel advisor is from 3rd, the mia maid advisor is from 5th, and the deacons advisor is from 4th, etc. Still, just 3 yw and 3 ym quorums, just all the adult leadership is spread across 3 wards, which means three different sunday meeting times and difficult to simply just catch another leader in the hallway to discuss who needs to use the gym on the next mutual night.
So, being able to say the building is only available to the ym and yw would allow the adult leader from one ward to schedule the gym without the headache of trying to track down all the other adult leaders in the other two wards.
That certainly is an unusual situation. But although it could be helpful to block out the Wednesday evening as you suggest, I'm having a hard time understanding the concern that other adult leaders for other auxiliaries would be reserving the building on Wednesdays if you didn't have the feature you suggest. In every ward I've ever been in, everyone knows when Mutual meets and wouldn't think of scheduling anything for Wednesday night. And if I understand your proposal correctly, all that would happen is that the RS, EQ, HP, Primary, etc. in all three wards would be stopped from scheduling the building on Wednesday evening -- which I doubt would be happening anyway. So it seems like it would be a lot of work to develop this complex feature for a rare situation.
But perhaps the bigger issue is sharing the event calendar, not excluding other organizations from scheduling the building. If so, I would suggest that you have a single YM/YW calendar (or more than one if desired) that is a stake calendar and thus visible to all members of the stake. Of course, only your three wards would be interested in it, but that's okay -- the stake calendar would be called something like "Elm Street Building YM/YW" that uniquely identifies it so that other wards wouldn't be tempted to subscribe to it. All the appropriate youth leaders could be made editors of that calendar. Then the right set of people would be able to add events to the calendar, and the youth and their parents in those three wards could subscribe to that calendar.
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