Missing Circle/Cannot Post as Admin

I am having 2 challenges with the circle feature.

1. I am listed as an Admin for both the Teachers Quorum and Teachers Quorum Presidency circles. These circles do not show up in my list.

2. My son is a member of the Teachers Quorum and I can see his circles. When I am in the Teachers Quorum circle I can see that I am listed an an admin but I only have read only access when I go through my son's circle,

How do I get the circles to show up in my view and how do I get access to post a message in the circle?

I'd suggest going into Member Tools and checking what MRN shows up for you and your wife. Verify the MRN that Member Tools shows as being "you" is the same MRN on the account you're using in circles. It's not unheard of for husband and wife to have their MRNs swapped on Temple Recommends.

If that doesn't work, get with the ward clerk and check that the MRN on the Church Account you are using for Circles is the same as the MRN of the member that holds your calling in the Teacher's Quorum.

The MRNs (not the names) are the key to getting the computers to understand what rights you should have.