The records would have been "removed" if she moved out of the ward boundaries, or if they were unable to locate her. Member permission has nothing to do with it.
She needs to talk to the clerk of the ward whose boundaries she lives in. If they don't have her records, they can find them. Then they can get her membership number.
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