wynnrichards wrote:I mean this with the utmost respect, why are there ministering assignments in the first place?
The scriptural basis for ministering (and its predecessors) comes from section 20 of the Doctrine and Covenants, where in verse 47 we are instructed to "visit the house of each member, and exhort them to pray vocally and in secret and attend to all family duties." The bishop also has a scriptural mandate to seek out those in need, not just to wait for them to ask for help (see Doctrine and Covenants 44:6 and 52:40, for example). To do that, he needs to have some way of knowing how his members are doing, and the elders quorum and Relief Society help him with that responsibility.
I agree with you, however, that showing up at someone's house unannounced is more often than not inconsiderate and is not usually a successful way to minister. The example of the Savior to show love and caring suggests that there are better ways.
The instructions on ministering seem clear to me that inspiration and love will be the biggest factor in enabling members to show that they care for each other as the Savior cares for each of us. And the Savior is who we represent as we minister.
The difference between theory and practice provides the workshop in which we live to learn to become as our Heavenly Father and his son, as we prepare to return to them.