I wasn't aware that MLS "closed" the donor record of someone who is deceased/no longer in the ward. I'd make sure you can't add the donation to that member first.
Failing that, you might try creating a new non-member record in the name of the husband and then merging the donors. If you can't merge, then I think you're stuck unless CHQ has some magic.
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