Skip, it can depend on many things, like, how geographically large your stake is; what the terrain is like; how much of that you are trying to cover; if you're trying to communicate simplex to 5W HT's with rubber ducks, 50W radios with elevated gain antennas, local repeaters; etc., etc. For example, from our stake center I can hit 1 of our ward buildings with a wrist-rocket and the other is only a mile or so away. For me, an elevated J-Pole might be overkill,
unless I was trying to reach the nearest Bishop's Storehouse, then it might not be enough.
For our situation, instead of a permanent fixture, a couple of us have fiberglass dual-band collinear antennas with portable tripods (and guy ropes/stakes, if needed) that can easily be setup on the stake center property. Mine fits in a duffel bag (with other things, of course) and takes about 15 minutes to put up. With a couple of RG-8 and/or RG8x sections, I can easily make it reach indoors to a command center.
Every situation is different, so you will have to experiment and see what works and what doesn't for you. That's one of the reasons holding regular nets is important. Over time, you will know exactly which areas are solid and which are completely deaf to your location. Or... which repeaters you can reach and which alternate repeaters you can't.
It all comes down to what it is you are trying to accomplish and what's keeping you from accomplishing it.
