kbhuffaker wrote:just over 8 years old.
What exactly is meant by "just over"? Handbook 1: 16.3 is pretty clear. While it encourages members of record to get baptized as soon after their 8th birthday as possible, the mission doesn't get involved until the child has reached their 9th birthday by the time of baptism, or if nether parent is a member.
I don't know as there's any way to "change" a baptism. I've never heard of it. Even if there was, I don't see the point in doing so. I don't think It changes how the member is handled, nor or do I see a benefit for the member. From other posts here, I'd be surprised if you could record this baptism if the child was 9 at the baptism date.
Since this sounds like it may be an overreach by the mission president, you may want to bring the stake clerk in on this discussion. He is responsible for training ward clerks, so he's the starting point for any big questions. He's also a good avenue for escalating questions to the stake president as needed.
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