stiles_mike wrote:Our RS President also got word that the member passed away on March 21.
In re-reading this, if the RS President was notified of the death (and not just a major incident) on the 21st, it seems highly likely that the person did die that day. I wouldn't take an obituary as "gospel" since it could be wrong.
But short of seeing the death certificate, you're not going to know what the "legal" date of death was. And as I pointed out, the legal date may not be the same as actual date. I've been though that, twice.
I think you're going to have to do with the best you can within the limits of the resources that you have.
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