The system will automatically determine if it's "spouse" or "other" based on if they match the "spouse" listed. For some reason this sister is not matching the information listed on the HoH. Has her marriage been recorded on his record? Marriage and household groupings are two very different things.
Once you get things fixed, you may have to remove and re-add her to the household.
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