I think the important thing to understand is that the "Household listing" is just that - a listing of households. The households will be listed by whatever has been entered as a "Household name". Individual listings are seen only once the household is selected.
I think what people are wanting is to be listed as individuals. But the directory doesn't support that.
I guess you could say we're a family-centric organization.
Requests to add an individual listing that should be submitted via the Feedback link on the main site. (Not to be confused with the Feedback forum.)
I _think_ if you go into the listing by organizations (or even "Adults"), you'll see the members listed as individuals. Oddly, when I tried to confirm that, I found a number of oddities. I'm not sure if they were all non-members or not. And I did see what looks like a different bug.
So, getting back to the OP, if the sister looks under Relief Society or Adults, she's probably in there under H. (I am assuming that is her legal/preferred name.)
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