Assuming you're talking about the new calendar system, you have to be a editor of the stake calendar in question to delete the events.
Ward and stake calendar under the new system do not interact like they did under the old one.
But first I'd check to see if you aren't subscribed to some stake calendars that are of no interest to you. If you drop them, then you no longer see them.
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