JohnShaw: Among the bishops in our Stake, there are two schools of thought:
1. It is good to let the bishop know what you know about the families, and tell him to take it with a grain of salt.
2. Let the new bishop find out things for himself.
We have had bishops do both. I am glad my bishop took the first tactic. My friends who had the bishop take the second tactic have for the most part, regretted it.
Again. I agree. It is dangerous, I think to have these type of notes anywhere electronic where others can see them. My list is hidden in a yellow notepad and hidden in a place in my briefcase that goes back and forth to church with me. No one will every see them. Accidentally or otherwise. If I sign onto the ward computer with my Sign in and get distracted, there is a chance that someone could see my notes. I don't want that to happen
lajackson: Because of what I said above, I have not had to counsel with the previous bishop about individuals even once. Just policy type questions.
It is fun to sit on the stand as new callings are announced and watch the former bishop either nod his head or grimace.
