C_Fillmore wrote:It's just the first individual I've come across that's changed those settings.
Actually, there is still a mystery as to "how" some settings change. There's been evidence of the settings being changed WITHOUT the individual doing it...but most of the time I suspect an individual didn't understand that his privacy choices in the directory were so far reaching through-out LDS.org, effecting also the calendar and the leaders ability to email them from the leader tool as well. (At least it's worked this way in the past.)
Realize that your stake clerk can't help this, as it would need to be addressed at the ward level. While I certainly respect individual privacy, if it doesn't make sense that somebody isn't showing up, I ask them about it. In the majority of the cases I've dealt with, when a member "disappeared," a contact from a ward leader asking if he/she really meant to disappear from all ward lists and not receive ward email notifications, they usually reverse his/her privacy settings so they can become involved again. They often say "no, I didn't want that, I just didn't want my email spammed," or "that's my company cell number, and only wanted the leaders to see it..."
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Classic Website's membership directory vs new membership directory
Privacy settings randomly changed